Control

I have spent a lot of time in my life trying to control what I am not, instead of accepting who I am. Trying to control outcomes of situations. Relationships. School. Home. My kids. You name it. What I have learned is it adds a layer of suffering when so much time is spent trying to control what can't be controlled. When I accept things for what they are. When I accept people for who they are. When I accept decisions for what they are. I am much more at ease. I like to get in a tug of war with GOD. I give it away. I take it back. I like to do this a lot. When I can relinquish my attempt to control, I am in a much better place. May you learn to relinquish control. You are enough.